I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 years. We both just turned 33, and recently she asked me what I think about us trying a threesome with another man. I’m not into it. And I never would have thought she would have been the type to be into it either. I love her, I want to keep her happy and I don’t want to lose her. What do I do?
My honest answer is I think your lady is becoming bored.It is rare that a woman steps outside of her relationship for purely sexual reasons.I am ALL about keeping your honey happy but you may want to try taking her on a nice vacation or purchasing a sex swing or something before you introduce a man that may just show you up!
Now there are exceptions to every rule, but usually women begin to look elsewhere when emotionally they’re not getting what they need. (Men tend to look elsewhere when the wind blows against their pants) So first, I would take a long look at your relationship and see if you guys have become complacent when it comes to romance. It’s normal over time, but it may be time for a relationship re-haul. Begin to date her again, take her to nice places and buy her flowers. Talk to her,really talk, face to face. Stop sitting next to each other on the couch as you both text your friends. Tell her she looks beautiful. Ask her questions about her day and actually pay attention to the answers. You get my drift…
Now if that doesn’t work and she’s still giving googly eyes to the Fed Ex guy, then your sex life has gotten dull sir. Get some toys! Learn a new trick. Stay away from porn, real women rarely like those moves. But figure out how to please her a whole new way.
I do not suggest bringing another man into your bedroom if you’re not into it. Have you really thought about what it’s going to be like watching another man do what apparently you are not? Yup. Not a good image.
Tell her you’ll think about it and use your time wisely. If you love this woman and want to keep her all to yourself, then get to work on keeping her heart AND her vagina happy 🙂
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